Understand Each Other Better, Grow Together, and Strengthen Your Connection
A learning experience for couples who want clearer communication, deeper understanding, and a shared language for navigating life together.


Because being in a relationship means navigating two different inner worlds.
StrengthsTogether gives you:
A clearer understanding of each other’s natural patterns
A way to talk about differences feeling good
A shared language to reduce misunderstandings
Confidence in how you complement each other
A practical way to support each other’s growth

StrengthsTogether workshops brings together group of couples — married, engaged, or simply ready to explore new ways to deepen their relationship. In a safe, relaxed virtual setting, you’ll each discover your individual CliftonStrengths and learn how your natural patterns of thinking, feeling and relating shape your connection.
Each of you completes the CliftonStrengths assessment and receives your full 34 Signature report.
Understand your recurring “moments of rub” — without judgement or blame.
Learn how your strengths complement each other and where you can offer support.
Leave with simple, practical ways to bring your strengths into your daily life.
Choose a session date and complete the booking form. We'll ask for critical information specifically for the use of the workshop. Once you've completed our form, we'll reach out to you directly to confirm your sign up.
You’ll each complete the official Gallup assessment before the session. Our sessions are based on the full 34 Signature Strengths report. We'll tell you more in the sign up form.
This helps tailor the session to your unique partnership. There's much opportunity to learn from each other and other couples that may join the same session as you.
A safe, guided space to explore your strengths and communication patterns. StrengthsTogether is delivered across two workshops of 2 hours each on a weekday evening of weekend afternoon.
Explore and learn together with other couples. We'll teach you the power embracing a Strengths-based approch to deepening your relationship. Leveraging the deep nuance of CliftonStrengths assessment, you’ll receive practical insights to support your everyday relationship.
This experience is designed for couples who want to grow together — whether you’re dating, engaged, newly married, navigating transitions, raising a family, or rediscovering each other after busy seasons.
We’ve been on a joyful married journey for over 20 years and are parents to two lively teenage girls. Our relationship has grown through different seasons — work, family, change, uncertainty, and purpose — and one of the tools that shaped us most has been CliftonStrengths. What began as a simple curiosity early in our marriage has become a shared language that continues to deepen our understanding of each other.
Isaac Ray is an organisational consultant and senior executive coach who partners with leaders across global organisations to develop healthy, purpose-driven cultures where people and performance thrive. His work blends strengths-based development, relational intelligence, and systems thinking — always with a focus on helping people show up with clarity, connection, and courage.
Shannon Ray is a Product Owner and Senior Business Analyst with over 20 years of experience designing better systems, improving processes, and helping organisations deliver meaningful outcomes for the people they serve. She brings a calm, grounded presence, thoughtful questioning, and a deep commitment to clarity.
We care about helping couples build relationships rooted in understanding, empathy, and shared purpose — relationships that can grow and thrive through life’s changes.
StrengthsTogether is our way of offering couples the clarity, language, and safe space that has shaped our own journey. Today, we enjoy walking alongside other couples as they deepen connection, strengthen communication, and build a thriving partnership in work, family, and life.

To create a safe and meaningful learning space, we invite every couple to commit to:

Commit to showing up fully — for yourself, your partner, and the learning group.

This is a non-judgemental space for reflection and growth. We’re all learning together.

Honour the stories and experiences shared by others. What’s said in the room stays in the room.
For other enquires or requests, please feel free to write to us hello@emergent.works
It’s a guided learning experience using the CliftonStrengths framework to help couples understand themselves and each other more deeply. You’ll explore how your natural talents shape your communication, connection and shared growth — through a mix of reflection, dialogue and practical tools.
CliftonStrengths is a research-based assessment developed by Gallup that helps people discover what they naturally do best — their patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving that can be productively applied in life and work.Instead of focusing on what’s wrong or missing, it helps you see what’s right with you.
Each person receives a unique combination of 34 Strengths themes, offering insight into how they build relationships, make decisions, and get things done.
In Strengths Discovery for Couples, we use this language of Strengths to help partners understand each other’s natural ways of seeing the world — turning difference into design, and awareness into appreciation.
Our sessions are held online via Google Meet, creating a relaxed, accessible environment wherever you are. Occasionally, we also host in-person sessions — these will be listed when available.
No. StrengthsTogether isn’t therapy or counselling — it’s a guided learning experience designed to help couples understand each other better.
Not at all. Most couples join because they want to invest in their relationship, not because something is wrong.
Yes. After booking, we’ll send you instructions to complete the CliftonStrengths online assessment. You’ll then email your reports to us so we can prepare a tailored experience for you.
No. Everything is guided and explained. We encourage couple participants to join sessions with an open and learner mindset.
Sign up, book your space, and discover what makes your relationship thrive.